As much as I like Stoicism or just "it's not my problem" way of thinking, it does pose a risk of being disconnected to other people. Sometimes, to a point that other's efforts are no longer appreciated because it brings nothing to the table.
For example, relatives going back to the PH after years being in another country. I no longer try to move heaven and earth to fit their schedule. In a way, spending time with them is just optional now and not a mandatory thing.
But I always thing of Stoicism when I over analyze or over think things like will there be parking in the mall if I go to late?
Being stoic doesn't mean you risk being cold or disconnected from people; you can still appreciate what people do for you. It just means you don't let emotions and expectations hamper you needlessly.
For example, you're organizing an event that is not going smoothly. The stoic thing is to accept that things will not happen exactly as expected. You can focus on the small things you can control --- fighting the fires one step at a time.
As much as I like Stoicism or just "it's not my problem" way of thinking, it does pose a risk of being disconnected to other people. Sometimes, to a point that other's efforts are no longer appreciated because it brings nothing to the table.
For example, relatives going back to the PH after years being in another country. I no longer try to move heaven and earth to fit their schedule. In a way, spending time with them is just optional now and not a mandatory thing.
But I always thing of Stoicism when I over analyze or over think things like will there be parking in the mall if I go to late?
Being stoic doesn't mean you risk being cold or disconnected from people; you can still appreciate what people do for you. It just means you don't let emotions and expectations hamper you needlessly.
For example, you're organizing an event that is not going smoothly. The stoic thing is to accept that things will not happen exactly as expected. You can focus on the small things you can control --- fighting the fires one step at a time.